Bali has expats from all over the world living here including what I sometimes refer to as local-expats. People from Java, Sumatra and other islands come here for work and that adds another dimension to the social scene. For a westerner thinking about dating a girl from Java there are a few tips you should know.
Firstly, parts of Java do not get tourists and it is likely you are the first foreigner she has dated, its all new. Her understanding of western culture is going to be skewed and expectations can be wildly out of whack. I know expats who have started dating a new girlfriend only to have her quit her job and try to move in. When dating a girl from Java you have to remember her situation. She came to Bali for work, sometimes that might be a job in a hotel, restaurant or shop, other times it might mean being the full-time girlfriend of a westerner. There are plenty of girls over here who have no interest in a regular job realizing their best chance in life is to find a western guy to look after them. The best strategy is to avoid girls without jobs if you are planning on a relationship that lasts longer than a weekend. The ones who work generally are honest and expect to pull their own weight.
…where to take her? Coming tommorrow.
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G’Day Nick,
I sure am looking forward to your report on ‘where to take her’.
Let me tell you something Nick. You were right about making sure they have a job. This is a plug for all you guys out there who have a heart and a soul. If I save anybody the pain I went through it was my pleasure. I’ve been around the block a few times and I’ve made it to the worst of the worst places. I’ve seen every dope-fiend move and been around people who thrive on misery. But out of all those people most of them still had a strong respect for something. God, mom, a homeboy, they had lines they wouldn’t cross. Just fot the dignaty of man kind. I was busy trying to brush the footprints off from an American girl who could at least admit she’s ill. Stay down. At my wits end out of the wood work comes an invitation for a chat on MSN Messenger. So with every bit of intelegence I’ve ever had knowing that the internet represents truth and wholesome qualities I replied “if this was a scam to get me to install MSN Messenger again it wasn’t going to happen”. It wasn’t a scam for MSN Messenger, it was a girl who would give up everything for anybody with enough money so she can spend. Don’t even expect a thank you. And be prepaired to hear anything you want. And even on a regular basis. As long as their’s some money. It’s never enough. And just like someone who is really concerned about their next shot of heroin they will just about do or say anything to get it. But it will be just as plain as day that’s where all the love is. The love is all aimed not at you but at that thing in your back pocket. And it doesn’t matter what you do or how you act or even if you tell them you’ll pay them to act like they care. That’s all they’ll ever love is money. If that’s what you’re looking for I hope it works for you.
We weren’t in love, oh no, far from it
We weren’t searchin’ for some pie in the sky summit
We were just young and restless and bored
Livin’ by the sword
And we’d steal away every chance we could
To the backroom, to the alley or the trusty woods
I used her, she used me
But neither one cared
We were gettin’ our share
Workin’ on our night moves
Tryin’ to lose the awkward teenage blues
Workin’ on our night moves
And it was summertime
I dated girls from Indonesia - not Bali, though. They are very sweet, but if they are Muslim (great people) you shouldn’t try to date them. They are set up by their parents and only with other Muslims. The catholic Bali girls go to sites like Dating-Game or Match, or eharmony. They also like to do live webcams if you can find them, like on Yahoo.
Excuse me, can i change the subject of this blog into “How to bang a working Javanese girl for free”???. i warning you! they are my srikandi and sisters from jawa. Just take “kupu-kupu malam” if you want some sex. You are going anyway not stay here in Bali forever. Your act is a cruel intention anyway. when you leave, you will break her heart.
show me your heart.
Yes, it is exactly right !! Many of javanese girl come to Bali chasing for bule to look after them.
Ok, that pic is very very familiar! How do you know this “international goddess”?