Regardless of what any Javanese girl says about food, she prefers rice with everything. Do not waste time taking her to Bali Bakery for breakfast, wait until 10am-11am and go over to Warung Batavia on Jl. Raya Kerobokan, she will love it. Warung Batavia serves distinctly Javanese food and you will get no complaints. Javanese girls often catch a lot of flack from Balinese locals who attach a label to them of being bed-warmers for bules. A girl who works in a regular job may feel uncomfortable accompanying you in an environment where there are a lot of Balinese locals, especially men.
If you date a Javanese girl and she starts waving to other customers in the restaurant / bar, that is a heads-up that she has been around. You may not want to pursue that situation too long. Do not offer to buy drinks for a new friend and all her companions. Latching onto a friendly tourist is a sport out here. If you do get someone a drink make sure its either a Coke of a small beer and order it yourself. You do not want the waiter arriving with a tray of cocktails with your friend saying, Sorry I thought you said my friends could have a drink.
The positives of dating a Javanese girl are she is away from the constraints of home and family. She can do what she wants and no one is going to expect you to commit to marriage anytime soon. Many Javanese girls are Muslim but unless you ask them you probably will never know, as the form of Islam over here is moderate. Many Javanese girls will be more familiar with the party scene than a Balinese. Bear this in mind if you are looking for a partying companion.
Girls wearing the traditional hair covering will not date you so do not bother. If your girlfriend is Muslim try to respect and support her in her religious commitments especially during the month of Ramadan. Dating a Javanese girl can be an interesting experience if both parties are open and relaxed.
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Sure Java girls are nice,same as any other girls in the world.Know in your heart my friends.Be careful and slow.And always use protection when engaging in any bedwarming activities.Watch your wallet and dont fall in love in the first week.
This article is demeaning, chauvanistic and racist towards Indonesian girls. To stereotype like this does great injustice towards all Javanese and Indonesians.
In all Societies, there would be girls of all ilk and the Author is obvious about his ignorance and pre-delictions.
Would one be correct if he went to a Red Light area in New York and say all American Girls were like that?
If you have good looks better than Brad Pitt with a great personality and can speak fluent bahasa but have little money to wine and dine her and take her shopping, the typicial Java girl may spend a few late night or early morning hours with you in Bali, while on the contary she will be all over 24/7 the fat hairy speedo wearing not so good looking 55 year old+ tourist handing out the rupiahs and breaking out the credit cards at the Discovery Mall.
which “wong ndeso” girl you met? not all javanese girl like that. You speaking like you know All of them well. I am wasting my time reading your blog. Bule idiot meeting jawa idiot girls.
Wow, I didn’t know that there are guidlines for scoring with the local ladies. This site must be a bible for all the LBH (Losers Back Home) bule in Bali - or Indonesia in general. Your looks and personality may not attract any men/women, but your wallet might, particularly if it contains foreign currency of higher value. This applies on every country in the world. Please note that most of the girls you’re talking about are the less educated, less well-off and are probably wondering every day where their next meal are coming from. And you’re advising the LBHs to be stingy, don’t offer drinks, watch your wallet etc, shame on you! Why don’t you face the deal at what it really is: those girls needs the money and you need the ego boost. Be a man and don’t let the girls get the short end of the stick.
Birds of a feather flock together, isn’t that so true?
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